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Getting it off my chest


I started this blog as a means of reaching out to other betrayed spouses, in the midst of my own pain and healing journey.  I’ve always found that helping others is a great way to also help yourself. As my story was unfolding, bit by bit, I would blog in order to obtain support, but […]

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Toronto Affair Recovery Seminar


I am often asked “if you could pick one thing that propelled you forward in your healing, what would that one thing be?” Hands down, it was attending the “healing from affairs” weekend with Anne and Brian Bercht. Anne and Brian are affair recovery specialists. They have helped hundreds and hundreds of couples heal their […]

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Inside the mind of a mistress


I’ve just spent an hour sitting at the computer watching You Tube.  While seeking out some resources for a member of my local support group that I run, I came across a Dr. Phil episode whose topic was “Inside the mind of a mistress”.  As always, I was intrigued. Thoughts and comments always welcome. Parts […]

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Jumping on the betrayed-wife-bashing bandwagon


I get it…when people are from different sides of an argument, it is hard to see and accept the other side’s views.  With infidelity, like any other highly emotional and charged topic, it becomes even harder.  I struggled a great deal and did a lot of work in order to be able to see and […]

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Lifting the veil of taboo


Why is infidelity such a taboo topic? Why are we all so keen to portray marriage as perfect bliss, with no problems? Why are we so ashamed to admit that there are issues like this exist in a marriage? Why does no one EVER want to talk about it?Why is there such judgment about it? […]

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Using grief for good


Have you heard the concept that the act of smiling releases “happy hormones” that can actually alter the way someone feels? Researchers suggest that when feeling down, that one force oneself to smile because the act of smiling has been proven to improve mood. Interesting. Along a similar vein, I’ve also heard that the best […]

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How brazen of her


***This post is being misunderstood and so it behoves me to put this disclaimer at the top so that the same misunderstanding doesn’t continue. This post and the analogies it outlines have nothing to do with the wayward spouse’s choice, their decision making, or explaining their behavior. This post, is instead about YOU the betrayed […]

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Changes to the blog


I have just bought the domain “rescuing my marriage”.  What does this mean to you? Likely not much, except that you no longer have to remember the URL as http://www.rescuingmymarriage.wordpress.com.  From now on, it will simply be http://www.rescuingmymarriage.com If you have bookmarked this blog URL, please make the change.  Otherwise, you should be redirected automatically!  […]

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Take your life back


If anyone is interested in this amazing weekend seminar, I will be coaching alongside Anne and Brian Bercht to bring healing and happiness back into the lives of women betrayed by those they love. It is a very powerful weekend, not to be missed if you can afford it. There are 4 spots left for […]

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A return to me


This process has been torturous for all involved.  Who knew that one split second decision to give a woman flirty attention, perhaps a kiss, or respond to a flirtatious gesture could turn a whole series of lives upside down?   I know my husband didn’t.  If he had, he would have walked away.  He should […]

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