Weighted Words

The words that we use have power. They carry weight. They carry the potential to heal, to reinforce, to deny, to withhold, and to harm. They can also send you on a trajectory you never thought possible. TOXIC: “Very harmful or unpleasant in a pervasive or insidious way” – Oxford Dictionary The day he called

Being the bigger person, and thinking like a man

OK I will be the first to admit it…my fight isn’t with my husband.  My fight is with his whore.  What a lying, conniving, self-centered, entitled piece of shit slutbag. I feel better.  Thanks. Over the last few days, 3-4 ladies have popped up on my comments in various posts sharing their stories.  Some have

It’s raining betrayal folks, part one

If I hadn’t just pinched myself, I would swear I was dreaming.  This week has been the most illuminating and surreal week I’ve experienced aside from the date of the discovery of my husband’s affair.  I left off my last post with a new betrayal, this time from my mother.  She had lied about my