Burden of responsibility and getting off Scott-free


When we are children, we are taught to share.  We are taught to “play  nice”.  When one child does something inappropriate to another, they are reprimanded.  If two children pair up to do something to a third child, both instigating children are found equally culpable, even when one points the finger at the other andContinue reading “Burden of responsibility and getting off Scott-free”

An orchestrated seduction


There’s that saying: “In the right place at the right time”.  Apparently that’s possible. At the time that the affair with his mistress started, my husband had been going through some personal turmoil that had left him feeling very alone and traumatized.  Our lives were so busy, each of us wrapped up in our careers,Continue reading “An orchestrated seduction”